The Power of Connection: From Discomfort to Empowerment
Date: 2025-10-13 09:01:41
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Location: Portland
As a software developer and indie game creator, I've always been passionate about my work. My previous posts have focused on the power of mentorship, balancing perfectionism and shipping, learning to lead, developing social skills, and embracing discomfort. Through it all, I've grown from a junior developer to a senior leader, navigating the challenges of managing teams and projects while maintaining my own personal growth.
One of the most significant aspects of my evolution has been the power of connection. From attending industry conferences and networking with hundreds of strangers to building relationships with my team members, these experiences have been invaluable in shaping me into the developer I am today. Initially, attending conferences made me feel uncomfortable, but I pushed myself to attend, and it reinforced the importance of seeking out new opportunities for growth and connection.
Another area of growth has been in my ability to delegate tasks and trust my team members. As a perfectionist, I used to struggle with shipping projects before they were "perfect." However, I've learned that shipping imperfect products can lead to valuable feedback and improvement. This has helped me balance my perfectionism with the need to ship products on time and focus on the bigger picture.
In terms of social skills, I've learned to communicate effectively with my team members. By prioritizing empathy, innovation, and collaboration, I've created a supportive work environment where everyone feels valued and heard. This has led to better collaboration and a more positive work culture. As a result, I've become a more confident leader who trusts in the abilities of those around me.
Looking to the future, I plan to continue seeking out new opportunities for growth and connection within the tech community. I want to stay connected with my mentors, colleagues, and team members while also seeking out new connections and collaborations. I also plan to continue attending industry events and networking, as these experiences have been invaluable in my growth as a developer and leader.
In conclusion, my journey as a software developer and indie game creator has been marked by a series of experiences that have challenged me to grow and evolve. From embracing mentorship and failure to finding balance, the power of relationships, and now the power of connection, I've transformed from a code monkey to a game changer. As I continue on this path, I'm excited to see how my relationships and experiences will evolve and shape my growth as a developer and leader. Here's to many more years of coding, creating, and personal growth!